You’re doing good (very interesting stuff, indeed); but, or course, true help would be a definitive ‘yes’ or ‘no’ 
Amazing that you say the universe must “know” about the matter it creates! Could it be similar to the human body’s ability to create cells etc. - programmed, rather than conscious design? The circumstances of the universe, during its birth and the proceeding conditions, were conducive with the formation of quantum particles, atomic structures, time, and eventually life. From what I understand, there was only pure energy just after the big bang… matter was formed from this energy. Is that correct?
Perhaps matter isn’t destroyed at all, but simply converts back to a less dense form of energy? What do you think?